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This Week Off the Mat Let’s clear something up. Yoga was never about touching your toes. It was never about the “full expression.” And it was never about getting it right. Somewhere along the way, it turned into performance. Women come to me thinking… They’re not flexible enough… They’re behind… They’re doing it wrong… The yoga industry has been selling you performance. Perfect lines.Full expressions.Flexibility as proof of worth. And quietly, women internalized it. “If I can’t do the full...
This Week Off the Mat I joined my pottery class one week late. I didn’t even know about it until after the first session.I could have said, “Oh well. I missed it.” Instead, something inside me said, really? So what. It’s pottery.It’s art.It’s for fun. And even if it weren't, would missing one class stop me from beginning? No. What struck me most wasn’t the clay. It was being a beginner again. Not knowing where to put my coat.Where my bag went.How the wheel worked.What tools to gather. There...
Hello Reader, This week I have been talking about believing in yourself.About stopping the explaining.About trusting your own authority. Sometimes believing in yourself looks like this: Not saying yes. Not rescheduling your hair appointment.Not canceling your yoga class.Not squeezing in one more thing. Sound familiar? “Yes, I can do that.”“Yes, give me ten minutes.”“Yes, I’ll be right there.” Those yeses add up. Overwhelm.Stress.Resentment. Supporting the people we love matters.But we have to...